Process this thought
We literally sat around a red table and for months of interviews and TV shows roundabout, watched a person’s intimate details be discussed in shameful manner. He became the joke of the town and everyone who’s anyone had an opinion in his marriage. Now we are stuck wondering why the man snapped.
Will (the Husband) is not perfect and neither is Chris Rock (the Comedian). They’re both comedians (why Will laughed initially).
The joke was distasteful, shock value at best. Jada (the Wife) didn’t like the joke but she didn’t tell that man to go up there and violently embarrass another grown men. Will felt he had to do it because his “masculinity” had been tested, dragged out in public (no excuse).
Seeking the approval of others is something we all do especially if we love and value that person.
Why did he feel like he had to prove his manhood? We know why Chris made the joke, he’s a comedian, he’s on a stage and needed to keep the audience entertained.
What’s going on with Jada that she felt that she had to speak of that man like that in public forum?
Instead of talking and shouting at each other about who’s wrong and who’s wronger. A conversation needs to happen, in order to move on. And it has to begin with Love, Respect and Understanding. All this is displaying is a lack of Self-Love and acceptance of yourself as who you are. Surrounding people with Love can help them evolve, grow and glow.
Stop pointing fingers and placing blame. We all should look in one direction and help those around us heal better.
The world needs more Love and Understanding.
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